When you’re not writing, or reading, what is your go to activity for
relaxation?
Well, this question is impossible. Writing and reading historical romance
are my two modes of relaxation. Without them, I don’t relax. I do relax
a little on my one vacation a year to England, but I’m thinking that’s not a
great answer. Sleeping relaxes me. Can I say sleep?
There’s not a lot of time for relaxation because there’s always other demands on
my time. Literally, every friend I’m thinking of at this moment would relate to
that: a stay-at-home-mother of five, a social worker, an investigator for the
Illinois DCFS, a university professor, a social media consultant, and a
scriptwriter for corporate training programs. I think nearly every woman my age
can relate to not having time to relax.
For the past 12 years, I’ve worked 45-50 hours a week as an advertising producer
with continual deadlines. Some days are easier than others, of course. Others
are worse. After work, there’s my writing and promoting the writing. Even
snapping pictures during my day to share on Facebook or Twitter falls into
family-friend-reader outreach, and that doesn’t really relax me, though
it is less taxing on my brain. (So that may venture a little into the realm of
fun, I suppose. Maybe. But not really.)
And I’m unmarried without children, or even a pet to feed or clean up after.
Writers who juggle family commitments and full-time jobs and
write more than two full-length books a year are like unicorns to me—no. They’re
more like the claymation Medusa from the 1981 movie, Clash of the Titans.
Remember her? With the snake-hair and rattle-snake tail and green, glowing eyes
that almost turned Harry Hamlin to stone? That’s a little how I envision those
women. Monsters who wouldn’t spit on you if you were on fire. (They’re probably
perfectly nice and fine. Probably.)
Okay, so if sleep isn’t an interesting answer, here’s another. On the nights I
don’t write or read I go to a live theater. Theater in Chicago is the best in
the world. The best. I can’t even listen to a New Yorker, Londoner or some
artistic director from an avant-garde company in Amsterdam claim they’ve got the
best city, because they’d be wrong. Also, sad and deluded and sad. Chicago is
the best city for theater. I’m not talking musicals—totally different thing,
Broadway kills it for musicals. But theater though. Our community of
actors, directors, playwrights, set designers, dramaturgs, theater spaces and
audiences are the best in the world. Period. It’s that simple.
All right. Maybe theater doesn’t relax me, either, as I’m getting puffed up just
thinking about it. These days, maybe I don’t relax. I’m answering this question
at nine o’clock on a Tuesday, in a conference room at my office, eating the
second half of a Jimmy John’s sub that I bought for lunch. (Tuna salad doesn’t
go bad that fast, right?) Like every other woman I know, I’ll relax
when I go to bed tonight (with a book). So… can I say sleep? Yeah, I think I’m
gonna have to say sleep.
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What do you do to relax? One reader will get a copy of DISCOVERY OF DESIRE so you
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“If you like your romance with the sweetness of Mary Balogh's novels or
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The one man who’s not looking for a wife
Seth Mayhew is the ideal explorer: fearless, profitable, and unmarried. There is
nothing and no one he can’t find—until his sister disappears en route to India.
His search for her takes him to Bombay, where Seth meets the most unlikely of
allies—a vulnerable woman who’s about to marry the wrong man.
Discovers a woman who changes his dreams forever
Teeming with the bounty of marriageable men employed by the East India Company,
Bombay holds hope for security for Wilhelmina Adams. But when the man she’s
traveled halfway around the world to marry doesn’t suit, Mina finds instead that
she’s falling in love with a man who offers passion, adventure,
intimacy—anything but security…
Romance Historical
[Sourcebooks Casablanca, On Sale: September 6,
2016, Paperback / e-Book, ISBN: 9781492623533 / eISBN: 9781492623540]
Susanne Lord is a writer of Victorian-era romance and author
of the London Explorer series published by Sourcebooks. Originally from Okinawa,
off-base and on, she now makes her home in Chicago where she is an active member
of Chicago North RWA. When not writing, attending theater or reading, she enjoys
hiking the English countryside and visiting historic homes and gardens.
I do puzzle books. I love logic problems and variety puzzle books. (Tanja Dancy 1:15am September 14, 2016)
I read to relax or I bake! Since it's just my husband and I our neighbors get to benefit from all the goodies I make. Love the cover and look forward to reading this book!!! (Bonnie Capuano 7:20am September 14, 2016)
I color and read and watch Three's Company re-reuns (Sally Hannoush 2:23pm September 14, 2016)
To relax, I like a bath and a book. (LaRonda Atchison 4:15pm September 14, 2016)
I love to do yoga or some sort of craft. (Erica Green 12:01pm September 15, 2016)
I read and also crochet. (Leona Olson 7:08am September 15, 2016)
I read and drink tea. (Sharon Berger 2:32pm September 15, 2016)
I read, watch TV, or do crossword or fill-in puzzles. I've also been coloring in my adult coloring book and on pages I got from the library. I like to use gel pens, especially metallic ones. (Michelle Fidler 4:54pm September 15, 2016)
I sew and quilt to relax. I love making my own clothes and home decor projects (Lettetia Elsasser 10:46am September 16, 2016)
I read or listen to music. (Colleen Conklin 12:44pm September 16, 2016)
I love to read to relax or take a relaxing walk. My pets also help me relax because they're so sweet and fun to be around :) (Morgan Mavetz 12:00pm September 17, 2016)
Mostly, reading is my relaxation, though TV works in some cases. (Janie McGaugh 12:22pm September 17, 2016)
I love to read! I just sit back with my book, have a cup of tea and go into another world through my books! Love it!! (Bonnie Capuano 8:15am September 17, 2016)
Reading is relaxing for me. Also, playing with my elderly dogs brings a smile to my face. (Annette Naish 2:25pm September 17, 2016)
I tend to read or cook in order to relax. (G. Bisbjerg 11:00pm September 17, 2016)
Susanne everyone has a different way to relax. If yours works for you, great. Relaxing for me is reading a good book & talking to my husband about the day's events. When I get in bed I think of different ways the book I'm reading can be changed, a more intense ending? or not. (Lois Imel 6:21pm September 19, 2016)
Well, reading is my primary form of relaxation. I do like to spend time with friends and family, but that's not always relaxing. (Glenda Martillotti 9:10pm September 19, 2016)
Reading is my best way to relax, although recently numerous hummingbirds visited my feeders and I enjoy watching them. I guess they will move southward soon. (Anna Speed 1:05pm September 20, 2016)
I love to read to relax. (Carol Woodruff 7:27pm September 20, 2016)
I enjoy reading, quilting, and doing puzzles. (Bonnie H 10:23pm September 21, 2016)