I was just in a small town in Kentucky for a book signing and visited a few
antique shops. I was shocked to find several items from my youth are now for
sale as (gulp) antiques. I saw lunch boxes, a hair dryer, and memorabilia from
TV shows. As I walked through with my friend who is under thirty, I hoped that
my knees wouldnโt creak too much. I consider myself the poster child for โAge is
Just a Number.โ I donโt feel my age and I tend to hang with people twenty years
younger. I listen to the current hits and can discuss pop culture like a
reporter for TMZ. However, time does march on and I find myself reflecting on
where I am in this life, what Iโve accomplished, and what is left to do. One
thing is certain, I donโt want to stand still.
I decided to pursue writing and publishing after age fifty. It was scary and
still is; so much to learn, so many decisions to make, everybody offered advice,
and most of the time, it was conflicting. I found that I loved the process, the
thrill of immersing myself into something new. Along the way I also learned a
few things about myself.
Experience has taught me many things that I can use in my new career. I believe
that I am ahead in the author game because I accept that I canโt make people do
things. Canโt make people buy my book, , canโt make the ones who loved it write
reviews. I donโt have that superpower (drat).
The second thing is to appreciate the compliments. Accept them and treasure
them. People donโt have to say anything or they can be negative. I soak them up.
So many times I hear others respond with an argument as to why the compliment
giver is wrong. โYou donโt really mean that do you?โ or they tear down their own
work. Just be happy that somebody cares.
And lastly, tomorrow might not come. If you want to do something, then start
making plans to do it. Saying someday doesnโt help you achieve your goal. Plan
and Act. Iโve started a savings account for my dream extended trip to the land
of my ancestors, Scotland. I want to go and I want to see it all.
I may be considered an antique, but I am still full of life, still full of
plans. I hope that I will always be this way. I firmly believe that life is
meant to be experienced, the good and the bad. We learn from both.
I live on a grain farm southeast of Indianapolis, Indiana with my very
patient husband of twenty-five years and our two English Mastiffs, Buster Brown
and Ginger. I graduated from Indiana University when it was the #1 party school
in the country and I took great pride in helping the school achieve that ranking.
I haven't figured out what I want to be when I grow up. I change careers every
decade. I have worked in retail, a federal courtroom, travelled across the state
closing loans, and behind the scenes in a casino.
I've always had an active imagination so when a good friend suggested that I try
writing a book, I thought why not, it should be fun. It has, but I have had to
work very hard to learn how to do it. I am so lucky for the outpouring of advice
and education from so many in the industry, plus the hand-holding and
cheerleading from My Gurls. I also have an incredible Ad-man-istrative
Assistant, who tries to keep me under control. He rolls his eyes so much that I
worry about a permanent condition.
When I โm not working or writing type stuff, I sleep, watch courtroom TV shows,
and sports. I was a competitive pro-am ballroom dancer for ten years and I read
as many books as I can.
I love to attend Author-Reader Conventions and look forward to meeting you.
A Change
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I should have known better. Women like me, average and unseen, donโt have our
dreams come true. And the one chance I had for my dreams, I watched die in our
doorway while I hid on the stairs.
Now I spend my days terrified for my life and my nights resigned to the fact
that Iโll be dead soon.
He can protect me. Forde has the reputation for handling cases that blur the
line between right and wrong. Yes, he can help me, but heโs asking for too much
from me โ my trust, my body and for the chance to make my dreams come
true.
If I couldโฆ everything would be Better.
Romance [Author
Self-Published, On Sale: October 4, 2016, e-Book,
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