Ralph Josiah Bardsley | Five Surprisingly Romantic Things to Do in Paris
My latest novel, THE
PHOTOGRAPHERโS TRUTH, takes place in Paris. The book traces the lives of Ian
Baines, a Silicon Valley software engineer and Luca Sparks, a former fashion
photographer. Their lives are turned upside down as they fall in love. The crux
of the story is that love is not always what we want it to be โ itโs messy and
inconvenient, but itโs always beautiful and exciting.
I donโt want to give away too much about the story, but I thought it might be a
lot of fun to share some of the more romantic activities I discovered while
doing my research in Paris. Just in case youโre over there with a loved one โ
here are a few โoff the beaten pathโ activities that capture the flavor of the
City of Light.
Grab a coffee or a glass of wine in Montmartre โ One of my favorite
parts of town is the little village of Montmartre. Itโs nothing like the rest of
the city โ it feels almost Mediterranean. I got to spend some time here while
researching The Photographerโs Truth, climbing up the steep steps and tiny
alleys where artists and writers from the last century spent their time. This is
the perfect place to find a cute little cafรฉ and hide away for a few hours with
a best friend or someone you have the hots for โ youโll find yourself slipping
into conversations about everything from soccer to the meaning of life.
Catch the Sunrise at the Basilica of the Sacre Coeur โ This is not
for the faint of heart, because it requires getting up pretty early and hiking
up a rather large hill. But, if you have the gumption, I would highly recommend
it. The church is at the highest point in the city and the views are
spectacular. Afterwards, work your way down the steps and youโll find yourself
in Montmartre โ also a great opportunity for a romantic moment or two (see #1).
Summer Stroll and glass of wine along the Seine โ The summer is
magnificent in Paris and the city comes to life during the warm months. The
Seine is the heart of city life, with games, artists, musicians, and pop up
cafes and bars along the banks of the river. There is almost no better way to
spend a sunny day than a leisurely stroll along the river between the Eiffel
Tower and Notre Dame. You can stop and participate in drawing chalk murals, try
your skill at a game of hop scotch and then just relax at one of the little beer
gardens or wine bars set up along the way. This is definitely one of my favorite
ways to while away an afternoon.
The gardens behind Notre Dame โ You might have a green thumb or maybe
not. Either way, the gardens behind Notre Dame Cathedral are a great place for a
walk. While the tourists are all clustered around the front of the church, the
gardens are tucked neatly in the back. Itโs a beautiful surrounding โwith the
flying buttresses on one side and the river on the other. Itโs a great place to
steal a kiss.
Croissants on the Rue Cler at Lโรฉclair โ When the crowds make the
Eiffel Tower unbearable, grab your travel partner and head off to the back
streets. A few blocks behind the Tower is a beautiful little street called the
Rue Cler. Itโs mostly closed to cars and itโs full of flower shops, wine bars
and bakeries. My favorite little cafรฉ is Lโรฉclair. Itโs a fabulous place to
unwind after the tourist destinations or a great way to avoid them altogether.
A little bit more about me โ I was born in a small town outside of Boston. My
dad was in the Coast Guard and so I grew up in a lot of different places โ New
Orleans, Cape Cod, North Carolina and Sitka, Alaska. When I wasn't in school, I
spent most of my time in Coast Guard hangers or reading. Today I live in San
Francisco where my hobbies include writing, running and wine tasting! Like
everyone else I wear a few hats. I work in the high tech industry in marketing.
I hold a bachelor's degree from Greensboro College and a master's in
communication from Emerson College.
When I read a writer's bio, I usually
want to know why they write - what makes them sit down at a keyboard and what do
they hope to accomplish. When I ask myself those same questions, it's more
difficult to answer. I've always loved writing - in any capacity. For a long
time, I got enough fulfillment out of the writing assignments I did for work.
I've written white papers on software, airlines, mobile technology and
advertising practices. These were (and continue to be) great assignments and I
absolutely love them - I get to learn about all sorts of cool new things all the
time. But eventually I wanted to do something more personal. So I started a blog
called BrandFiller. I recruited several contributors and we had a lot of fun for
a year or so writing short form articles and posts about everything from hockey
to fashion. Let me say - for me blogging was A LOT of work. It was rewarding,
but I wanted to do something bigger - something that expressed bits and pieces
of my own life and feelings in a work of fiction. So that's when I decided to
retire the blog and try a novel. I never expected anyone would publish it. But
the team over at Bold Strokes Books saw my manuscript for Brothers and decided
to take a chance on me. You can be the judge of if they were right, when the
book comes out on December 1, 2015. So what makes me sit down and write now? I
guess just the opportunity to express myself and share that expression.
My
writing comes from a combination of experience and imagination. My family -
especially my husband Dana - is a big part of my inspiration. They're always
pushing me to do more and I love them for it. I also love to travel, and I
manage to work the details from the places I visit into the stories and the
books I write. Someone once told me that the only true value you ever get for
your money is travel - and I couldn't agree more.
Ian Baines seems to have it allโa career as a hotshot software programmer in
Silicon Valley, a beautiful wife and family, a nice house in an upscale San
Francisco neighborhood, and a past that heโs mostly managed to forget. Life
takes an unexpected turn for Ian when he finds himself in Paris for a
three-month work project where he meets former fashion photographer Luca Sparks.
The unlikely friendship grows and Ian sees a new side to life as Luca takes him
on a journey through the glamorous and lustrous Paris nightlife. But something
strange starts to happen during their adventures in Parisโthe two start to fall
in love. Both battle their own demons on the road to self-discovery, ultimately
learning how to come to peace with their feelings and their pasts.
Romance Gay [Bold Strokes Books, On Sale: July 12, 2016, Paperback /
e-Book, ISBN: 2940156767151 / eISBN: 9781626396388]
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