As a real life example, I know I felt more lady-like whenever I put on a cheongsam (or even a dress); dressing in my aunt's hanfu robes instantly gave me a theatrical flair. It was fun stuff. :D
Listening to music helps me when I'm stressed! That and a nice cup of tea. :) I love the excerpt, and I can't wait to read Christophe's story! Ganbatte on your move!