I as well went through 'trials' before finding the one that was right for me. At the time I thought these people were the one's but it's not until you meet the 'one' that you begin to realize just how foolish you were to ever think those in the past could of been the true person to live the rest of your life with.
I haven't had my moment yet but if I did, I would like to think I would act in the right manner - but then a part of me thinks that I might freeze in the moment as well.
It's interesting to read because I follow this hockey team which has identical twins on it and it seems like they get asked every other day if they feel what the other one feels when they're away from each other and they always say that they don't but they keep getting pressed on it; as if it were true. You can see that they have a lot of similarities but they also have their differences; including one of them being more outgoing while one of them is shyer. I find it really interesting.