The lady who is my best friend now (more like a sister). She's the person who is ALWAYS there to help whenever something needs done. She's the definition of compassion and I strive to be like her.
I try to not rely too heavily on first impressions because it's impossible to really know someone that quickly. I give second chances, but in the end, first impressions are usually pretty accurate (unless there are extenuating circumstances).
Alpha males usually get my attention the quickest, but betas are sweet. I think I do best when they have been in other books first so you already know them. You fall in love with them slowly.