As a reader of the "more daring" erotic romance and paranormal books being released in today's society, there has been a time or two recently where I've come across a scene that will make me cringe. The couple is hot and heavy into their lovemaking, getting all worked up and perhaps losing inhibitions fast, and suddenly there are unlubed fingers reaching in the backdoor. This one for me is an "ouch" and auto clench the butt cheeks. Not something IMHO would be pleasurable. The rear area is not self lubricating and certainly requires some additional attention before any insertion is going to be happening. Although perhaps a turn on for some, dry entry into the forbidden zone is just not all that believable.