Hey, everyone. Thanks so much for the great comments and kind words.
Yes, asking for help is really hard for me, and I don't know why, since like many of you, I have a hard time saying, "no." It's gotten easier as I've gotten older.
Also, as many of you have mentioned, getting help and reciprocating is wonderful. But getting help with strings attached is really tough for me to swallow, and for those who've had to deal with that kind of situation, I'm sorry.
What I find fascinating is that many people have the same comfort zone issues - exercising, meeting new people, being in huge groups of people. Honestly, this is making me feel more like I'm not alone!
Also, I can tell you right now that skydiving (!) is completely outside of my comfort zone, and I give Clare serious kudos because I know I'm never going to be able to do it. Ditto bungee jumping. I've never been in a helicopter, but I think I could manage it.
I'm seeing lots of positive change here - becoming stronger people, feeling better, making a difference for family members - this is what gets me going in the morning. Knowing that there is not only room for change when I step outside my comfort zone, but knowing that I have the potential to be a better person when all is said and done. Keep 'em coming!
Super impressed by Amy and Sandy who've overcome shyness. It's very difficult to confront a fear and overcome it, so well done! And to the folks who are exercising and having success - you're seriously motivating me!
I love these comments! The emergency services day sounds amazing (and challenging to organize), and we all know how difficult moving can be, especially to a completely new environment. As far as exercising, you know how I feel about that!