I believe that if the man loves God with all his heart and seeks to have the best relationship with a woman, he will seek direction through God's Word. I do enjoy a sense of humor......as it helps to keep things in perspective.....and having some similar likes makes a huge difference. I like Mary Anne's comment....."Their struggles in everyday life can also represent a form of heroism."
At the end of the day, it's what we do with each set of 24 hours that God gives us, that will make a difference. How they respond to life's dips and curves will let me know who they are........and will make it easier for me to make a decision if I will choose to spend time with them.
A man whose example leads me to a closer walk with God will definitely catch my attention, as well as a man who wants to continue learning about many things, not thinking that he already knows it all!!
At the end of the day, I ask the same question to myself....."who will I become in five years time if I choose to stand by this man?"
I want to be a better person........and time always shows who people really are by their actions, and not so much by what they say about who they are.
So if they can speak the truth with love, are good stewards of what God has given them, can make me laugh, and maybe enjoys cooking and four- footed people and loves to travel?????????
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