I just found you through fresh fiction and can't wait to dig in! As for online dating"? I'm a skeptic. Brad Paisley's song comes to mind- "ONLINE" Sorry there's no way to know who's lying- my bet is MOST.
Opposites may attract and cause fireworks, but I don't believe they will remain together unless BOTH parties are very good at compromising and thinking of each other's feelings.
I am a true romantic and pretty easy to please. If my husband holds my hand in public, picks up the house or does laundry I'm happy! lol I do get the occasional card and flowers for no reason and LOVE it!