I like that it's more life-like and "mixed up" to use the guys words. *smile* I'm not so sure they can keep things from mixing up in their real lives, so why try in a book? Besides the never knowing what to expect is part of life, part of suspense. Geez, who realized men were still such boys? lol
My favorite quote is actually a Dr Seuss one..“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." How true this is!!