Prologue
Eight Years Earlier
"I have something real important to tell you," Curtis said
to Tanya, the woman he'd been dating for quite some time
now. "Probably one of the most important things I will
ever have to tell anyone."
"Okay," she said as calmly as she could, but in reality
she was about to spill over with curiosity.
"Remember when I told you that I thought God had called me
to preach?" he asked.
"Yes," she acknowledged.
"Well, no matter how hard I've tried to ignore it, I know
now that I have to accept it."
Tanya reached out to hug him and they embraced for a few
seconds. "I'm really, really happy for you, because I know
you've been struggling with this for some time now," she
said.
"I always knew it was the right thing for me to do, but I
guess I was sort of hesitant because I didn't want to do
anything that would disappoint God. This is a serious
commitment, and I didn't want to accept my calling until I
was sure I could be faithful to the pulpit. I know it's
not going to be easy, but Tanya, I really do believe that
I can make a difference in a lot of people's lives."
"Honey, I know you can. And you will, so long as you
continue to follow God and you always remember to put Him
first."
"My vision is so great. And what I want more than anything
is to encourage people to live their lives in the right
way and to teach them the word of God so that they truly
understand it. So that they truly understand what they
have to do in order to be rewarded with eternal life."
His words were powerful, and Tanya felt a sense of
serenity just listening to him. She'd known for the last
couple of years that he was destined to be one of God's
leaders. He'd always been a decent person since the day
she'd met him, and not once could she ever remember him
wanting to party with his friends or do any of the things
that most college men seemed to enjoy doing. He was
different, and that was the main reason why she'd been so
attracted to him. He was so respectable and straight-laced
if you will. Which had been fine with her, because
alcohol, drugs, and wild parties hadn't been her forte
either.
Curtis continued. "I'm telling you, sweetheart, the sky is
the limit to what I can accomplish with my ministry. Who
knows, maybe I'll even become senior pastor at one of the
prominent churches here in Atlanta. Or maybe I'll even
build my own church. But more than anything, you know what
I eventually would like to do?"
"What's that?"
"Become an evangelist, so that I can take my ministry all
across the country. And who knows, maybe even to other
parts of the world where people are a lot less fortunate
than we are."
"You've really got it all planned out don't you?" Tanya
said laughing. Curtis laughed with her. "I guess I do."
"Well, there's nothing wrong with being ambitious, because
that's what will make all the difference in the world for
you as a minister. And I want you to know, that I am so
proud of you for making this decision."
"I'm glad to hear you say that, because I wasn't sure how
you would react to being with a minister," he said,
grabbing both of Tanya's hands.
His face was serious, and Tanya wondered what was next on
his agenda. You know that I love you, right?" he asked.
"Yes," she answered.
"And you love me, right?" he asked staring straight into
her eyes.
"You know I do. I always have."
Curtis sighed deeply, moved from the sofa and kneeled down
in front of her on one knee. Then he pulled out a small,
felt-textured box.
Tanya covered her mouth in disbelief.
"Sweetheart, will you marry me?"
Tanya swallowed hard with tears flowing down her face, but
quickly answered his question. "Yes, Curtis. I will."
He smiled at her, stood to his feet, and pulled her up
from where she was sitting. They held each other closely
and Tanya felt like melting to the floor when her future
husband kissed her. She was so in love with him, and she
could tell that his feelings for her were the same. And
now he was going to be a minister, and better yet, maybe
even a pastor of his own church some day. He was so happy.
They were happy together. And Tanya couldn't imagine life
being any better than the way it was for them right now.
But best of all, she had a feeling that they were going to
be happy with each other forever. And that was the one
thing she'd always dreamed of.
Chapter 1
Tanya crossed her legs for what seemed like the hundredth
time and gazed at her husband in disgust. She'd been
sitting as patiently as she possibly could, pretending to
pay attention to what he was saying. But the more she
listened to his pathetic observations, the more annoyed
she became. And just looking at the eight hundred dollar
suit, the overpriced dress shoes and the expensive gold
watch he was wearing was enough to make any human being
puke. She couldn't believe he actually had the audacity to
stand before his 3000-plus congregation, practically
demanding that they give more money. Exactly how much more
money did he think these people could afford, anyway? The
majority of them were already obeying God's word by paying
ten percent of their weekly incomes, and to suggest that
they should be giving anything more than that, was simply
ridiculous. That is, unless there was a reason for it. An
important reason like one of the families being left
homeless due to a fire or flood. Or one of the less
fortunate members needing assistance with emergency
medical bills or help with burying their deceased loved
ones. As far as Tanya was concerned, situations like those
were fine, but anything else just didn't seem justified to
her. Every Sunday Curtis laid down the same wretched guilt
trip, and she was sick of it: "You are robbing God, if you
don't pay your tithes, and He will bless you even more, if
you give an additional offering."
It was so hard to believe that this was the same man she'd
married eight years ago. She'd thought for sure that
Curtis Black was the man of her eternal dreams. He was
intelligent, responsible, attractive, and without a doubt,
the most spiritually-grounded man she'd ever made
acquaintance with. They'd met during her junior year at
Spelman, his senior year at Morehouse and had fallen
hopelessly in love with each other from the very
beginning. He pursued his bachelor degree in business, and
she worked hard on her degree in psychology. Then shortly
after they each completed their graduate studies in
counseling, Curtis announced that God had called him to
preach, and that he wanted her hand in marriage. And for
the first six years, they'd been happier than any married
couple could have thought possible. Everyone said they
were a perfect match, and their friends and family members
always raved over how attractive the two of them looked
together. Curtis with his tall, broad-shouldered body and
deep mocha complexion, and Tanya with her black, bobbed-
like hairstyle and medium cocoa skin-tone. But what all
their admirers didn't know, was that not everything that
looked good was, and that her and Curtis's model marriage
had long since turned into something very ugly and
dreadfully different.
If they all only knew about the horrible rumors that had
started only weeks after Curtis was installed as pastor of
Faith Missionary Baptist Church, which was located on the
south side of Chicago, and how Tanya had purposely tried
to ignore each and every one of them-hoping that these
rumors were nothing more than vicious lies. That is, until
those lies began floating in a mile a minute, from every
possible direction, and she'd had no choice accept to
believe that at least some of what she was hearing had to
be true.
The thought of Curtis sleeping with another woman had
always made her cringe, but now Tanya's pain was slowly
turning to rage. She hated the ground that he walked on
and everything he stood for. She wished him dead on almost
every occasion, and she wasn't sure just how much more of
this facade of a marriage she could actually take. She was
sick of him and sick of pretending that they were this
perfect couple who loved each other more than life itself.
And even worse, she hated him for not spending any time
with their six-year-old daughter, Alicia-the same daughter
who still worshiped everything that had to do with her
father. She didn't deserve to be neglected by him in that
way, and just thinking about how he treated her pissed
Tanya off.
Oh, but enough was enough. And as soon as they arrived
back at their South suburban home in Covington Park, wife
of a pastor or not, she was going to show him a side of
her that he'd never ever seen before. Tanya snapped out of
her daydream and watched her husband step away from the
podium. She couldn't believe he was still begging for more
money.
"We as black people have little, because we think little,
and I want you all to know that it's up to you and I to
take care of Faith Missionary Baptist Church," Curtis
said, walking down the center aisle of the beautiful
sanctuary, just past the second pew where Tanya was
sitting. "If you want me to take you places that you've
never gone before, then we are going to have to get rid of
these stingy attitudes. I can feel them throughout the
entire congregation, and it ain't nothin' but the devil
who is trying to convince you to hold on to those purses
and those wallets. Who gave you those purses and those
wallets in the first place? And who gave you those good
jobs that most of you go to every day? And who gave you a
roof over your head, clothes on your back, and food on
your table? I'll tell you who. God did."
Curtis paused for a moment and shut his eyes. Then he
opened them. "God has laid an important message on my
heart. He wants me to ask every adult who is here right
now to give an extra twenty dollars this morning."
Tanya noticed some of the members looking around at each
other. Some even whispered to the person sitting next to
them. And it was obvious that most of them were sick and
tired of dealing with this same old Jim Jones-Jim Baker-
Jimmy Swaggert-need-more-money sort of mentality. She
couldn't help but wonder just how far Curtis was actually
willing to go when it came to getting what he wanted from
these innocent people. But the more she thought about it,
the more she realized that her husband really didn't have
any limitations when it came to anything.
And that was the one thing that frightened her the most.
Right after the Black family changed out of their Sunday-
go-to-meeting attire, they each sat down at the kitchen
table to eat the barbecued rib dinners they'd picked up on
the way home from church. Usually they sat in the dining
room for Sunday dinners, but sometimes when they ordered
take-out, they ate in the kitchen instead.
"So, baby girl," Curtis said to his daughter. Did you
enjoy the service today?"
"Yes. You preached really good, Daddy," she said smiling.
Tanya smiled, but only to pacify Alicia.
"And you sounded real good yourself when you lead that
song today," he complimented her. Alicia was a member of
the children's choir.
"Thanks," she beamed.
"What about you, baby?" he turned his attention to
Tanya. "Did you enjoy the service?"
"It was fine," she said trying to keep her composure,
because she didn't know how much longer she was going to
be able to control herself.
"The spirit was really moving through the church today,
wasn't it?" he continued.
"Yeah, I guess it was," she answered.
"Mom?" Alicia said. "Can I go next door to Lisa's?"
"I guess, but if they're in the middle of eating dinner,
then I want you to come right back home."
"I'll bet they already ate because they get out of church
way earlier than we do," Alicia offered.
Hmmph, Tanya thought. Everybody got out of church earlier
than they did. She didn't know a lot of African-American
Catholics, but their next door neighbors never missed mass
on any week she could think of. And they were always home
before noon every Sunday.
"Okay, but make sure you wash your hands before you go."
Tanya instructed. Alicia did what her mother told her, and
then left out of the house in a hurry.
But as soon as Alicia had barely darkened the front
doorway, Tanya lit into Curtis like a mad woman.
"You know, Curtis, I don't know who you think you are, but
you are not God's gift to this earth," she said, shoving
the wooden chair that she was sitting in up to the table
as hard as she could. She'd tried to calm herself down
during the drive home and then again when they first
starting eating dinner, but now she felt like she was
going to explode.
Curtis frowned. "What are you talking about?"
"You know exactly what the hell I'm talking about."
"No. I don't. And I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't use
that kind of language in my house," Curtis said spooning
up a helping of peach cobbler.
Tanya glared at him and wanted to slap that dessert right
down his throat. "What do you mean your house?" she asked
folding her arms, staring at him. "Because, this house is
just as much mine as it is yours. And you'd better get
this through your head, too: I'll say whatever I feel like
saying. Whenever I feel like it. You might control those
tramps you sleep around with, but you don't control
anything that has to do with me."
"Lord have mercy," Curtis said squinting his eyes at
Tanya. "This ain't nothin' but the devil tryin' to come
between us, because Lord knows I haven't been sleeping
around with any women?"
"Curtis, please. I mean, why is the devil always
responsible for everything when it comes to you getting
caught up in your mess? And, if that's the case, then let
me ask you this. Is he responsible for you laying up with
practically every woman at the church who will have your
little jack-leg preachin' ass?" Tanya said and was shocked
at her own words. She'd hadn't spoken so profanely since
college, and even more so since she became a minister's
wife, and she wasn't proud of it. But it was just that
she'd had it up to here, there and everywhere with
Curtis's sleeping around with all these women. She didn't
have one ounce of proof, but that was only because he was
always so smooth, slick, and secretive with his
wrongdoings. But she knew what he was up to, because he'd
long stopped satisfying her in bed, and to tell the truth,
their lovemaking was nonexistent. And no man, especially
one who was as high-natured and passionate in bed as
Curtis, could go without sex week after week, and lately,
month after month. No. Pastor Curtis Jasper Black was
definitely getting his needs fulfilled somewhere else. She
was sure of it.
Curtis looked at his wife like she was crazy. "Why are you
doing all that cursing?"
"Now, which do you think is worse, Curtis? Me using the
word hell and a-s-s or you running around all over town
committing adultery? See, that's the thing with you,
you're always pointing out what everyone else is doing
wrong when all along, you're doing something much worse.
And to think you're the head of a prominent Baptist
church. Please."
Curtis shook his head in confusion. "I don't know what's
gotten into you, but I'm going to pray for you. Maybe we
need to pray together, so the devil can loosen his hold on
you."
"What's gotten into me is that I'm sick of hearing all
these rumors about you and these women, and I'm sick of
you coming into this house sometimes as late as midnight
and one o'clock in the morning. Claiming that you've been
doing the work of the Lord. Claiming that you were at some
Baptist ministers' meeting. Claiming that so-and-so needed
you at the hospital all evening to pray for their dying
soul. Or that Mary, Sue, and Jane needed you to pray for
their gangbanging son. Yeah right," she said throwing the
last of the dinner dishes into the dishwasher.
Curtis sighed deeply and then stood up from the
table. "Look, I've had enough of this. And I won't be
spoken to this way in my own house. I'm the head of this
house, and you will respect me whether you want to or not.
A wife has a place, and she should stay in it. And I'm
only going to tell you this one last time. I'm not
sleeping around with any women. I love you and Alicia, and
I would never betray my family. Regardless of what you and
any of the rest of those gossipy women at church think.
They're just jealous, and the sooner you figure that out,
the better off we'll be."
"Jealous of what, Curtis?"
"Jealous of the way you dress, the kind of house you live
in, and that brand-new Lincoln Navigator that you drive
around in every day. The ones who are talking are the ones
who wish they were in your shoes."
She couldn't believe how shallow and superficial he was
when it came to petty luxuries. And what did material
things have to do with anything, anyway? And since she
didn't know, she decided to ask him. "What do material
things have to do with you sleeping around, Curtis?"
"Look," he yelled at the top of his lungs. "I've already
told you a hundred times. I'm not sleeping around with
anybody."
"Well, then, why don't you make love to me anymore? Huh?
Explain that."
"Look, I'm under a lot of pressure, and being pastor of a
church as large as Faith Missionary involves a lot of hard
work. You know how tired I am every evening when I get
home. But I promise, things will eventually get better."
"Maybe when hell freezes over, but then I don't plan on
staying around long enough to see if things will get
better or not," she said wiping the kitchen table.
Curtis laughed sarcastically and shook his head. Then he
grabbed his car keys. "I'm out of here. And I hope the
devil has turned you loose by the time I get back, because
I really don't want to hear anymore of these paranoid
accusations."
As he turned to walk out of the kitchen, Tanya threw the
wet dishcloth and hit him in the back of his head.
"See, that's why I'm never here. And for the record. Maybe
I don't make love to you anymore, because you're always
doing all that nagging, and it really turns me off."
"If you were being the faithful husband that you're
supposed to be, then I wouldn't have anything to nag
about. And on top of that, what about Alicia? You hardly
spend any time with her, and I'm sick of you neglecting
her the way you do," Tanya said and wanted to cry her eyes
out. Partly because of how Curtis was ignoring their
daughter, but mostly because he'd actually admitted that
she turned him off sexually.
"Look. Alicia knows how much I love her, and she also
knows how busy I am with church business. As a matter of
fact, she seems to understand that more than you do. And
you're my wife."
"She's only a child, Curtis. And she'll believe anything
you tell her because you're her father. But, I'm not six
years old like her. And I know for a fact that there isn't
that much church business going on anywhere."
"Whatever, Tanya," he said and opened the door leading to
the garage.
"Where are you going?" she yelled behind him. "To lay up
with Adrienne Jackson?"
"To lay up with who?" he said, laughing in denial.
"You heard exactly what I said. To lay up with Adrienne
Jackson," Tanya repeated, becoming more angry by the
second. She'd heard that Deacon Jackson's wife was
Curtis's prime-cut mistress, and although Tanya didn't
have proof of it, she couldn't dismiss what she'd been
hearing.
"If you must know, I'm going out to visit some members on
the sick list," he said without looking back at her.
"Liar!" Tanya shouted. But, Curtis shut the door. And it
wasn't long before she heard him driving down the street.
Tanya sat down at the kitchen table and clasped her hands
together under her chin. A thousand thoughts circulated
through her mind. A part of her wanted to believe that her
marriage had a chance, but things were so awful between
her and Curtis, that she was starting to seriously doubt
it. He didn't seem to care about her at all anymore, and
it had gotten to the place where he found any and every
excuse in the book to spend time away from her and Alicia.
She was so tired, and even though she was angry, she was
hurt. And she was ashamed of the way she had spoken to
him. He'd deserved every bit of it, but that wasn't her
usual way of handling things. Her parents hadn't raised
her that way, but as of late, she hadn't been able to
control the way she felt, much less the things she said.
Not to mention the violent and conniving thoughts she'd
been having. The kind of thoughts that were totally
against any and everything she believed in. She'd been
sure that marrying a minister would guarantee her complete
happiness, because it certainly had for her Aunt Margaret
in Memphis, but now she knew that not every minister was
sincere, and that some were merely playing with God. She
regretted ever going out on a first date with Curtis. As a
matter of fact, the only positive thing she'd gotten out
of this whole ordeal was her sweet, little, innocent
Alicia. And as much as she wanted to divorce Curtis, she
knew she had her to consider. She didn't know how much
longer she could sleep in the same bed with Curtis, but
she knew she had an obligation to her daughter. Which
meant she had no choice except to continue living a life
of complete turmoil until Alicia turned eighteen. Which,
unfortunately, wasn't going to be until twelve years from
now.
Tanya grunted at her last thought, and then heard the
phone ringing. She glanced up at the caller I.D., and saw
that it was Curtis calling from his cellular phone. She
wasn't in the mood for anymore arguing, and she definitely
didn't want to hear anymore of Curtis's lying. But she
reached and picked up the cordless phone just the same.
"What?" she said in a non-chalant tone of voice.
"Tanya. Look. I'm really sorry for arguing with you, and
I'm even more sorry for not spending any quality time with
you and Alicia. But I'm telling you. From this day
forward, things are going to be different," he said and
paused. Then he continued.
"You sound like you're ready to divorce me, and that's not
what I want."
Tanya listened, but she was leery. Especially since Faith
Missionary's bylaws specifically stated that in order for
a minister to keep his position as pastor of the church,
he had to be married. So, she couldn't help but wonder if
that's what his real reason for calling was. The real
reason he was sounding like he was in beg mode. A mode
that The Reverend Curtis Black never thought he needed to
shift into for anyone.
She switched the phone from one ear to the other, but
didn't say anything.
"I know you're upset," he continued. "But we can work this
out. I'll be home in a couple of hours or so, and we can
talk then. Alright?"
"I don't know that talking is really going to change
anything. Because, it's not like you can take back what
you've been doing."
"Tanya. I'm telling you. No matter what you've been
hearing. I'm not messing around with any other woman. I
admit that I have purposely tried to find things to do,
just so I wouldn't have to spend so much time at home, but
that's only because you and I have been having so many
arguments. But for the millionth time, I would never sleep
with another woman. You and I took vows before God, and I
have a commitment to Him, you, and our daughter."
"Mmm. Hmm," Tanya said rolling her eyes toward the ceiling
in disbelief.
"I'll talk to you when I get home, okay? And Tanya?"
"What?" she answered irritably.
"I love you."
Tanya didn't say anything.
"Did you hear me?"
"I heard you," she said in a so-what tone of voice.
"You're not going to say it back, though. Right?"
"Curtis, I think you and I are much too old to be playing
these little teenage phone games, and if you want to talk
to me, I'll be here when you get home."
"Okay, okay. I'll see you later."
Tanya hung up the phone and walked outside to check on
Alicia.