Don't worry about it, I got it: I told you to do this several times, but I'll just do it myself. If you want to start a fight, just ask me "What's wrong?"
Not real sure what gift I would want. Healing has its perks but then it would be too demanding
Empathy comes to mind. I always hate seeing people sad or anxious. If I could take that stress in, turn it into something better, and ease it back in a person. (Okay so a character I have influences this.)
The perfect hero would be thinks of others before he would think of others. He would know he can not save the entire world but be content on the ones that he can save. He knows his limitations, will push himself a little further but not too suicidal.