For me it Happened as my mom passed away. Dy dad leaned over her and kissed her on her head goodbye and I felt it my calling in life. it was to show and give love to my dad. To make his days on earth the best they can be. I was born with C.P. and I often felt my parents were cheeted untell that day. On that day I learned so much about life and love. We, her family was gathered around her bed shareing stories of how she loved us. And I finly got it. the focus isnt me...its us.