I love your books and the fact you stress that they are Fantasy, and that everyone should do their research to explore a BDSM lifestyle. Or, even if they want to just play. With the "Disneyification" of BDSM in "Fifty Shades," so much misinformation is out there. Be safe, girls! Don't mistake a "Dom" for an abusive jerk. Too many of us have experienced sexual abuse of one sort of another; allowing someone to abuse your trust & push you when you are not ready or willing will only cause you further psychological harm. Stand your ground & trust your boundaries. When it's right, you'll know to give over control. A good Dom knows he has to earn it!... Thanks again, Ann, for your creativity & passion. DAWN MARIE.