Hi Allegra! It depends on how the heroine is written. If she is more of a take charge kind of woman then I will remember her, if not then it will probably just be the hero that I remember. But either way, I don't often sub in myself mentally. In Diana Gabaldon's Outlander, I always think of that as Jamie and Claire's story. It is impossible to separate the two. I like a story that couldn't be unless those two characters were in it.