HOW TO LOSE A BEST FRIEND by Jordan K. Casomar is a poignant and thought-provoking novel that delves into the complexities of friendship and unrequited love. Set against the backdrop of a high school birthday party, the story explores the fallout when long-standing expectations clash with personal desires.
Zeke Ladoja and Imogen Parker have been best friends for as long as anyone can remember. Their close bond has led everyone around them to assume they are destined to be together, including Zeke, who is ready to declare his feelings for Imogen on her sixteenth birthday. However, Imogen’s heart belongs to someone else—Trevor Cook, a new boy at school—leading to a turbulent confrontation that tests their friendship.
The novel shines in its portrayal of the myth of the "friendzone" and the pressure Zeke places on Imogen to reciprocate his feelings. Casomar’s writing brings a nuanced perspective to the issue, highlighting the emotional turmoil of being expected to fit a mold that doesn’t reflect one’s true feelings. Imogen’s struggle to assert her desires while dealing with the expectations of those around her adds depth to her character and resonates with anyone who has faced similar pressures.
Zeke’s character is compellingly complex, embodying both the vulnerability and entitlement that can come with unspoken romantic expectations. His journey from heartbreak to a more destructive path is both heart-wrenching and eye-opening, providing a clear look at how unmet expectations can spiral into deeper conflicts.
The book is a powerful read that balances the emotional intensity of its central conflict with a sensitive exploration of personal identity and autonomy. Casomar’s storytelling captures the pain and struggle of navigating relationships where expectations and reality clash, making HOW TO LOSE A BEST FRIEND a meaningful and engaging addition to contemporary YA literature.
Overall, Jordan K. Casomar’s latest novel is an important read that addresses relevant issues with honesty and empathy. If you’re looking for a book that tackles the intricacies of friendship, romance, and personal growth, HOW TO LOSE A BEST FRIEND is a compelling and memorable choice.
This “important and necessary book for our time” (Amber Smith, New York Times bestselling author of The Way I Used to Be) confronts the myth of the friendzone as a boy in love with his best friend feels he’s owed a chance at romance—and she’s the only one in their lives who disagrees.
For as long as anyone can remember, Zeke Ladoja and Imogen Parker have been best friends. Their classmates, their parents, and even the school custodian think that they’re meant to be together. And that’s exactly what Zeke wants: for Gen to be his girlfriend. Now that she’s about to be sixteen (and allowed to date), Zeke is finally going to tell her how he feels—in front of everyone at her birthday party.
Imogen loves Zeke with all her heart, but only as a friend. The pressure to be with Zeke has sometimes been overwhelming, but up to this point, she’s been able to manage it. Then she falls for the new boy, Trevor Cook, and she knows the news will devastate Zeke. The last thing she wants to do is hurt her best friend, but she also resents the fact that no one seems to care about what she wants.
The night of Gen’s party, everything goes wrong. There’s backlash, most of it directed at Gen, and Zeke feels emboldened. He isn’t about to give up on his feelings, and he’ll do whatever it takes to prove that she made the wrong choice…even if it means destroying their friendship. But Gen isn’t about to give up on fighting for herself and the freedom to love the boy she wants, notthe boy she’s expected to be with.
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