I enjoy the love-at-first-sight concept, but did not have a great experience with it. I fell hard for my first husband. From the first meeting, I was totally intrigued and marriage followed within months. Three years and one son later, a very bitter divorce. Then I was introduced to a man that had I not been paired with as his sponsor to help him get settled into his new base, Torrejon Air Base near Madrid, I wouldn't have given a second thought, let a lone second look. He became a great friend and feelings grew on me slowly. We will celebrate 30 years this fall...not to mention 7 boys and 2 girls. But perhaps it happens that way for the lucky few...