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WILD THINGS IN CAPTIVITY: RECONCILING THE EROTIC AND THE DOMESTIC By: Esther Perel
A celebrated therapist examines the conflict between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust back into a loving but sexless relationship
HarperCollins
September 2006
On Sale: April 5, 2014
288 pages ISBN: 0060753633 EAN: 9780060753634 Hardcover
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In her 20 years of clinical experience, Esther Perel has treated scores of couples who complain of domestic lives devoid of eroticism. They describe loving, intimate relationships that are egalitarian and open, and yet their sex lives are passionless and dull. In her explosively original thesis, Perel explains that good intimacy doesn't necessarily make for good sexβour cultural penchant for equality, fairness, and absolute candor is antithetΒ¬ical to erotic desire for men and women alike. Sexual exciteΒ¬ment, she explains, doesn't play by the rules of good citizenship. Rather, it is politically incorrect, thriving on power plays, unfair advantages, and seductive manipulations. Perel takes us into the paradoxes of love and desire, and shows us how we might have more exciting, playful, even poetic sex if we were less conΒ¬strained in the bedroom by egalitarian ideals and an over-focus on performance. By flinging the doors open on erotic life and domesticity, she invites the reader to put the "X" back in sex.
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