When Corey Wellington woke up at 5:14 a.m., he had no
intention of killing himself.
Over the last twenty years the thought of taking his own
life had, in fact, crossed his mind many times, but never as
clearly, as distinctly, as that first time, when he was a
junior in high school and Caitlyn Vaughn stood him up at
prom, and everyone knew about it, and it felt like someone
had knocked his feet out from under him and hit him with a
baseball bat in the gut at the same time.
In retrospect it seemed silly, childish evenโfeeling so
devastated by something so inconsequentialโbut at the time
itโd felt like his entire world had crumbled.
That night heโd gone to his fatherโs den in the basement and
taken the key to the gun cabinet from the desk drawer where
his dad kept it, where he thought it was safely hidden from
his two curious children.
Corey had opened the gun case, loaded one of the revolvers,
and then sat at the desk for a long time with the handgun
cradled in his hands.
It felt cold and heavier than it looked.
Wonder, dreams, hopes, all those things that make life
livable seemed to be slipping away like a stream of spent
possibilities. There was nothing he could think of that he
looked forward to: not summer vacation or his senior year or
seeing any movie or listening to any song or playing any
video game or being with any girl.
It was as if everything that lay on the horizon of that
moment held nothing but the promise of more rejection and
despair without any hope of healing.
Yes, a girl can do that to you. Yes, she can rip out your
reason for living, just like that, with one glance, one
comment, one prom-night giggle when she blows you off and
then jokes about it with her friends.
Heโd raised the pistol and slid the end of the barrel into
his mouth.
Can you ever really know the reason behind an action? Can
you ever really tell for sure why you did one thing instead
of another? That, yes, this is why you quit your job, bought
the Toyota instead of the Ford, ordered spaghetti rather
than pizza, didnโt pull the trigger when you had the chance.
Maybe it was cowardice, maybe it was some strange breed of
courage that kept him from putting a bullet in his brain
that night, but at last heโd replaced the revolver and
ammunition in the cabinet, and no one had ever known that
heโd had a gun barrel clenched between his teeth and his
finger pressed against the trigger on prom night.
In the months that followed, thinking about how close heโd
come to ending it all had frightened him, and heโd found a
persistent heaviness lurking on the edge of his thoughts.
Eventually, heโd started taking meds to quiet the depression
and keep those thoughts of irreversible solutions away, but
still, over the years, it had stolen one marriage, two jobs,
and any number of friends from him.
But not since that night in high school two decades earlier
had the thought come to him as overpoweringly as it did
today:
Kill yourself, Corey. Take your life. This is
something you can do right now. This very day.
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