I'm not a control freak at all. I'm more a 50/50 kinda gal and look for that in a man. There are times when one partner should take the lead and the other defer control. But to live that way 24/7 would be too oppressive for me.
There is nothing more dynamic then the relationship of a mother and daughter. My mother was my best friend and is dearly missed. I look forward to reading your book.