Mary, your beta heroes have warmed my heart. I married a beta hero, a man who was adored by literally hundreds of women who didn't hesitate to remind me how lucky I was! The work he most loved to do took him into frequent contact with the men who became his friends and the women who adored him. How lucky for us both that I wasn't jealous, that he could be trusted. Beta men give us the freedom to BE most fully ourselves. They love us deeply; they need us, and they fulfill us in ways alpha males will never imagine.