My new novel, The Journey
Home, talks about food a great deal. One of the three viewpoint characters,
Antoinette, was a sensational and extremely creative home cook when she was
younger. Another viewpoint character, her son Warren, is troubled by his elderly
mother’s fading away, and though he has never done much cooking, he decides to
attempt to recreate her greatest dishes in an effort to keep her rooted in this
world.
I’m a relatively serious foodie myself, and I had a tremendously good time
writing the food scenes in this novel. I think I might have enjoyed doing that
more than any writing I’ve done so far. Partly, it was because I found it an
exciting challenge to create brand new recipes on the page (I wanted
Antoinette’s dishes to be entirely original). Partly, it was because writing
about food and romance at the same time allowed me to engage with the characters
at a higher level than I’ve ever engaged with characters before.
A big reason why I enjoyed writing this novel so much, though, was because it
reminded me of my own experiences recreating family recipes. My parents were
both excellent cooks, so I grew up with a reverence for food and fascinated with
how different combinations of ingredients tasted together. When I started
cooking for myself, though, I didn’t attempt to make the food that my parents
made. Instead, in what I guess was some form of rebellion, I decided to explore
the food of other cultures. As a result, I didn’t get nearly as many cooking
lessons from my parents as I might have. They were both much older than me, and
it wasn’t until they died that I realized that I’d always been assuming that one
day I would have them teach me their classic recipes. Unfortunately, with few
exceptions, that day never arrived.
When my father died, I decided to pay tribute to him in the way that seemed most
appropriate to me. I had a family of my own at this point, and for the next
week, I cooked nothing but my dad’s best. The challenge here was that I didn’t
know how to make most of it. I’d eaten this food long enough, and I knew enough
about cooking, that I could piece together the ingredients. The key, though, was
getting it to taste like his.
I waited until the end of the week to make his legendary lemon chicken. People
literally talked about it for weeks after trying it for the first time. I’d had
lemon chicken in dozens of restaurants, and it never tasted the way my father’s
tasted. How he got it to taste that way, though, was a complete mystery. When
the day arrived, I tried to envision him making it. I’d seen him do so on
numerous occasions, but I’d always watched him casually. If there was some
culinary magic trick involved, I’d missed it.
The lemon chicken I made for my wife and kids that night was a pallid facsimile
of my dad’s. My family was very polite about it, but we all knew that I’d swung
and missed. I took this as a challenge, though. Every few weeks, I’d try again,
employing different techniques. Eventually, I created something that tasted very
much like his. However, it involved methods I know he never employed. I’d lost
his magic trick to the annals of time.
But at least I had a way of conjuring the flavor and, in some little way,
bringing him back.
7 comments posted.
What a touching tribute to your father. It is unfortunate that time slips away so quietly and quickly. Once we lose our past it can never be regained.
(Rosemary Krejsa 6:59pm May 28, 2010)
My Mom, unfortunately, wasn't the greatest of cooks, but I keep my heritage alive by cooking ethnic dishes -- not only hers, but others I've learned about through Aunts. My Dad, Husband, and others have complimented me on my dishes, and never turn down one of my meals!! It's a gift I acquired through watching, listening, and following some pretty complicated recipes. Polish people like me take pride in their cooking.
(Peggy Roberson 11:23am May 29, 2010)
We share a lot of recipes in my family. I even started to put together a family cookbook.
(Brenda Rupp 7:15pm May 29, 2010)
My Mom was a wonderful cook and I cook just like her so just about daily I think about her and have carried on things like homemade cinn rolls for christmas, My kids wake up to the smell of cinn rolls baking on that a.m just like I did. Thay is just one such memory that I want my kids to have due to thhe fact that I love them in my childhood.
(Vickie Hightower 3:04pm May 30, 2010)